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Professor Scott Galloway: “This Is An Emergency!” The Number Of Men Having No Sex Increased 180%! (Why This Is Dangerous & How We Fix It)

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

Sun Oct 01 2023



Societal Challenges Faced by Men:

  • High male mortality rate in the UK, with 76% of deaths being male.
  • Young men are less economically successful compared to previous generations.
  • Online dating has made it more difficult for young men to establish relationships, leading to loneliness and isolation.

Impact on Women:

  • The pool of viable mates for women is decreasing as women become more educated and financially successful.
  • Women are struggling to find suitable partners due to changing dynamics between genders.

Causes and Solutions:

  • Lack of male role models plays a significant role in the struggles faced by young men.
  • Education system bias against boys contributes to lower academic performance and fewer opportunities for success.
  • Economic policies have created wealth disparities that affect men's self-worth.
  • Solutions include focusing on personal finance, living below one's means, starting early investments, reframing conversations around men's issues with compassion.

The Power of Rejection and Perseverance:

  • Enduring rejection is crucial for success in personal and professional endeavors.
  • Developing resilience and grit are key attributes for long-term success.

The Impact of Pornography:

  • Moderating consumption of pornography can help young men develop real-life social skills and improve overall well-being.

Financial Literacy:

  • Focus on finding a career path with high employment rates rather than solely following passion.
  • Live below your means, invest in low-cost ETFs or index funds for long-term wealth accumulation.

The Importance of Male Role Models:

  • Male role models play a critical role in shaping the lives of young men by providing guidance, support, and positive influences.
  • Society should encourage more men to step up as mentors and role models for young boys who may lack male figures in their lives.

The Need for Compassion:

  • Addressing the struggles faced by young men with compassion instead of blame or judgment is essential.

Creating a Supportive Environment:

  • Encouraging men to actively participate in the lives of young boys and provide mentorship and guidance.
  • Recognizing the importance of positive male role models in shaping the development of young men.
  • Creating programs and initiatives that promote healthy masculinity and support young men's emotional well-being.

Addressing Societal Biases:

  • Challenging societal norms that perpetuate harmful stereotypes about masculinity, such as the notion that seeking help or expressing emotions is a sign of weakness.
  • Promoting gender equality and dismantling systemic biases that disadvantage both men and women.
  • Fostering open dialogue and awareness about the challenges faced by men to encourage empathy and understanding.

Education Reform:

  • Implementing comprehensive sex education programs that teach healthy relationships, consent, and communication skills.
  • Addressing bias within educational systems to ensure equal opportunities for boys and girls.
  • Providing resources and support for teachers to effectively engage with students from diverse backgrounds.

Promoting Mental Health Awareness:

  • Investing in mental health services specifically tailored to meet the needs of young men.
  • Destigmatizing seeking help for mental health issues through public campaigns and community outreach programs.
  • Integrating mental health education into school curricula to increase awareness and reduce stigma surrounding mental health.

Building Stronger Communities:

  • Encouraging community involvement through sports teams, clubs, volunteer work, or other activities that foster social connections among young men.
  • Promoting positive peer interactions through mentoring programs or youth organizations.
  • Creating safe spaces where young men can openly discuss their experiences, concerns, and aspirations without fear of judgment or ridicule.

Workplace Relationships:

  • Workplace is a great place to meet and fall in love.
  • One in three relationships begin at work.
  • Remote work has limited the opportunities for people to meet and form relationships.
  • More flexibility should be given to caregivers who need to balance work and family responsibilities.
  • Young people need more opportunities to meet and connect with each other.

Importance of Protection:

  • Being a protector is an important aspect of masculinity.
  • Men should prioritize protecting others, whether it's their family, community, or society.
  • The role of protectors includes ensuring the safety and well-being of others.

Provider Role:

  • Men are still looked upon as economic providers in many societies.
  • Economic success is often correlated with masculinity.
  • Men should take on the responsibility of providing for themselves, their families, and potentially extended family members.
  • Providing financial security is seen as a key attribute of masculinity.

Procreator Role:

  • Initiating romantic relationships and pursuing potential partners is considered part of masculinity.
  • There is a difference between pursuit and being predatory. Consent and respect are crucial in initiating romantic relationships.
  • Men should feel comfortable taking the lead in establishing romantic connections.

AI and its Impact:

  • AI technology will replace many jobs in various industries.
  • Aggressive regulatory oversight by elected leaders is crucial to address potential issues related to AI technology.
  • Universal basic income may become necessary as job opportunities decrease due to automation.

Simpler Solutions for Societal Problems:

  • Raising minimum wage could help reduce rage, shame, deaths of despair, loneliness, obesity, addiction among young people
  • Putting more money in the hands of young people through increased wages would have positive effects on mental health, relationships, and overall well-being.
  • Creating more opportunities for young people to meet and form connections such as through third spaces or national service programs.

Importance of Regulation:

  • Government officials need to take a proactive role in regulating AI technology and protecting society from its potential misuse.

AI and Automation:

  • Historically, new technologies have created opportunities for employment despite fears of job destruction.
  • AI will create new businesses and job opportunities in fields like healthcare and education.
  • Adoption of AI will lead to increased productivity and higher-paid jobs.
  • People who understand and utilize AI effectively will be the ones taking jobs, not AI itself.
  • Technological advancements in the past have led to job losses but overall employment has increased as new industries emerge.

Future Implications of AI:

  • Concerns about a species or being with superior intelligence compared to humans.
  • Uncertainty about where individuals fit into a world dominated by robotics and AI.
  • Autonomous driving may initially impact truck drivers' jobs but create new opportunities in programming, repair, software development, lobbying, etc.

Optimism Towards AI:

  • Optimism about the future impact of AI on employment and society as a whole.
  • Benefits of AI will outweigh negative consequences by increasing productivity and creating value.
  • Some sectors might face disruption due to automation while others experience job growth through the development of new industries.

Appreciation for Scott Galloway:

  • Gratitude for Scott Galloway's return to the podcast and his communication skills.
  • Praise for his ability to tell compelling stories humorously.
  • Friends also admire Scott Galloway's brilliance and storytelling skills.